C. Values, Dreams and Goals
When my wife and I go to an open house, looking at homes for sale, we picture what we would do with the house or how we might use the house. This is us daydreaming. When I go to Home Depot or get some building supplies made available to me, I start to come up with projects on how I would use these supplies. What I would build, how I would do it, how we would use it and about how long and how much effort it would take to do it. I mainly stick to the tools that I have and the skills that I have....
We are trained and built by our culture, situation in life, genetic and biology. There are many sayings about walking in another’s shoes. If I had been in his shoes, I would have done the same thing. The tortured and bullied child, tends to grow up to torture and bully. The welfare child tends to grow up to be on welfare. The doctor’s child tends to grow up to be a doctor (or something like it). …... But not always. We are always looking for the training, the situation, the thing, that...
I remember getting an idea and getting all excited about it. I had a couple things I could do right away, but also had to write down or sketch out the special parts about the idea. I’m not sure how I’m going to do this, but it is going to be good!!! I got started right away, I had to! I know I should have waited and planned it out more, but I couldn’t wait. This could be something as simple as making a sandwich or playing a joke on a friend to as complicated as a 5 year goal to build a...